First, keep yourself at peace; then you can make peace among others.   A peaceable person does more good than one very well educated.   A hot-tempered person makes evil out of good; that kind of person believes the worst.   But a good, peaceable person interprets everything to the good.   Peaceable persons do not cultivate a critical attitude about others; but a discontented person tosses and turns with all sorts of criticism.   Such critical people do not enjoy a quiet heart.

Thomas à Kempis, The Imitation of Christ, 2:3:1

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